Topic: Blowjobs

Sex on the Wire: Everything’s Coming Up Blowjobs

Sex on the Wire: Everything's Coming Up Blowjobs

• Real talk: do men expect blowjobs? (Yes, men expect blowjobs.) (The Gloss)

• Now that we know dudes expect blowjobs, here are some tips on making them efficient. (Get the guy to do your taxes afterward?) (YourTango)

• Porn stars react to Osama bin Laden’s death. One even offers — get this — a BLOWJOB to the soldier who shot him. (BlackBook)

• Being sexually harassed affects men more than it does women. No blowjob jokes here. (MyDaily)

• Pre-nup or no pre-nup? Will and Kate said no. (The Frisky)

Sex On The Wire: Blowjobs Give You Head Cancer

Sex On The Wire: Blowjobs Give You Head Cancer

• Oral sex now puts you at a higher risk for developing HPV-related neck and head cancer. Head cancer? Sure. Which is an awesome new excuse for us not to give you a blowjob. Thanks science! (US News)

• German brothels are now catering to the elderly. Wonderful, now I know what to get grandpa for his 80th. (Nerve)

• Women care more about text messaging than men. But that’s how else are we supposed to communicate with you when you’re watching the game? Right ladies? (Switched) More »

Commenter Of The Week: The Lesbian Argument For Oral Being ‘The Real Deal’

Commenter Of The Week: The Lesbian Argument For Oral Being 'The Real Deal'

This week, our intrepid sex columnist Halle Kiefer took on the difficult terrain of defining sex acts. According to Halle, blowjobs count as sex, and she’s tired of everyone pretending otherwise. There were more than a few commenters who disagreed with her, but we kind of like electrasteph’s lesbian argument for counting oral as “real sex”:

“I hope oral sex counts, because the lack of any penis in my romantic relationship with my wife would mean that I’m still a virgin. And I haven’t logged all those hours diving for nothing, people. I’m just sayin’”

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Romancing The Bone: No Really, Blowjobs Are Sex

Romancing The Bone: No Really, Blowjobs Are Sex

As girls begin to explore the boner-filled wonderland that is Human Sexuality, they will eventually run into a discrepancy between our society’s definition of what constitutes sex and the large variety of activities people watch on RedTube with the sound off. That is to say, many people do not consider oral sex to be “real” or “actual” sex. Not me though! As a result of this pervasive idea, many young women (and men) might invest in a pair of quality knee-pads, but would never dream of counting a mouth-lover as a full sexual partner. And that’s an idea I take umbrage with! More »

Poll Results: You Don’t Mind BJs

Poll Results: You Don't Mind BJs

Yesterday, we wanted to talk about blowjobs. We asked you for your feelings on the matter and you answered. According to the results from our poll, the same percentage of you reported that you actually enjoy giving guys oral as said you would only do it to a guy you were seeing in a commited relationship. More »