Author Archives: Nikol Hasler

Sex, Honestly: Working Out The Kinks

Sex, Honestly: Working Out The Kinks

Recently, a friend called me in a panic. She’d been sexting with her boyfriend and he asked for a picture of her peeing. Assuming the call was about how to get a good shot without dropping the phone in the toilet, I began to suggest the shower stall. Turns out she was actually worried about what his request might mean. If he wanted to see her peeing, would he also want her to pee on him? And if he wanted that, did it mean he also wanted her to poop on him? More »

Sex, Honestly: The Etiquette Of The Threesome

Sex, Honestly: The Etiquette Of The Threesome

Threesomes certainly have their appeal – for all sorts of different reasons. If you’re a single person, it may be something you’ve always wanted to do, and – without the constraints of a relationship – you have more freedom. If you’re in a relationship, it may be something that comes up because you’re comfortable with each other and would like to spice things up a bit. It can be a real turn-on to see someone else enjoying your partner’s body. It can even feed the voyeuristic desires of watching and being watched. But threesomes are in no way a simple business. More »