Jonah Hill Has Already Apologized For The Slur, And Actually Did A Pretty Solid Job

Jonah Hill attending Academy Awards March 2014Earlier today, I wrote about my disappointment with Jonah Hill for using a homophobic slur toward a photographer over the weekend. And while my disappointment hasn’t gone away, I’m actually pretty pleased with the apology that he just issued on The Howard Stern Show.

Just to catch you up, TMZ released video today that showed a group of paparazzi following Jonah through Los Angeles, heckling him about all manner of stuff. We only hear the guy insult Jonah’s floral print board shorts, but apparently he was taking aim at everything from Jonah’s appearance to his family members. And at some point, for whatever reason, Jonah snapped, and gave the guy exactly what he wanted, saying:

“Suck my dick, you faggot.”

Ugh. Gross. No excuse. But the only silver lining here is that Jonah knows that, and he’s taking responsibility for it in his apology instead of pretending like he was misheard, or like that’s an okay word to say when you don’t mean it that way. 

“This is a heartbreaking situation for me, because from the day I was born, and publicly, I’ve been a gay rights activist. [...] This person had been following me around — just to give it some context, not excusing what I said in any way — had been saying hurtful things about my family, really hurtful things about my family. and I played into exactly what he wanted and lost my cool. And in that moment, I said a disgusting word that does not at all reflect how i feel about any group of people.”

He then takes a quick jaunt down ‘I Have Gay Friends Lane’, and seems dangerously poised to use that as an argument for why he shouldn’t be in trouble for this…but then comes back to the intelligent side of things by explaining that he knows the words are never okay, no matter who you are.

“I’m not at all defending my choice of words, but I am happy to be the poster boy for thinking about what you say, and how those words, even if you don’t intend them in how they mean, they are rooted in hate, and that’s bullshit, and I shouldn’t have said that.”

Hey Alec Baldwin, are you listening? This is how you apologize for using an unacceptable term, not by dancing around it, denying it, or blaming your audience for interpreting it as a slur when you didn’t mean it that way, all while continuing to do it on the reg.

“What I said in that moment was disgusting, and a hurtful term. I should’ve said either nothing or just ‘fuck you’. Instead, I used a word that I don’t use in my personal life, it’s not party of my vernacular. I’m happy to take the heat for using this disgusting word; what I won’t allow is for anyone — it would break my heart to think that anyone would think, especially with all the work that I’ve done and all the loved ones I have — that I would be against anyone for their sexuality.”

Well, you don’t quite get to tell people what to think about this, because anyone who has that word on the tip of their tongue, ready to come out, has some thinking to do about why that might be. But regardless, I’m grateful that he’s willing to own up to the fact that what he said was not okay. Half kudos, Jonah.

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    • Trish

      Well, he didn’t have a choice, he had to give an apology, he does have a huge movie coming out in a couple of weeks. And I’m sure his publicist helped him hit all the right points in that apology but I don’t buy that the f word is not a part of his vernacular and he’s never used it in his life. That word just doesn’t slip out and roll off the tip of your tongue if you’ve never used it before :/

      • Alexis Rhiannon

        That’s my feeling as well, but I’m glad he’s taking responsibility. I think that’s a step in the right direction.

      • gayle

        This exactly. It is the same as with Alec Baldwin. I don’t necessarily believe either of them is homophobic but that these words so easily come out of their mouths when they are upset, cannot be ignored.

    • Mystik Spiral

      I’m glad he’s taking responsibility, and to those saying that it’s a problem for that word to be at the tip of his tongue, I disagree. I grew up in the 80′s, where everything we didn’t like was “gay”, “lame”, or “retarded”. I STILL find myself on the verge of using these words to describe something I simply think is distasteful. When you live for years having words at your disposal, it can be very difficult to never, ever, EVER feel them bubble up seemingly out of nowhere.

      Also, I am 100% pro-gay-rights, and I’m in no way ableist. Just to throw in that FYI.

      • Alexis Rhiannon

        Absolutely! My dad and I were just talking about the same thing, that your brain holds onto a store of those words, appropriate or not, and when you’re in a moment of stress, it flashes right back there.

    • J_Doe5686

      It sucks, but that’s what paps do. They provoke and videotape them and when they get a reaction they accuse the stars of whatever. I understand him completely. I am happy he apologized.

    • Pugno Deamonium

      pop-culture keeps inventing new, wrong ways to use words. homophobic, trans-phobic, racist, sexist. one word cant be homophobic, racist etc. it would take a phrase or reaction to make the “homophobic” or “racist”. like a person freaking out when they find out someone is a homo, like people that are afraid of clowns. thats homophobic. calling someone a “nggr” isnt racist. its not declaring one race superior to another. calling something “gay” isnt refering to homsexuality. its using the original meaning of the word , merry/vivacious/whimsical, as a statement to something that it supposed to be a serious situation ends up being a whimsical, lighthearted situation. i suppose for every person that is in a “minority” group, moaning like and unpaid whore about how tough it is ,there is another person of that group that doesnt give a shit and spends time on real life. like my GF’s brother. he it so gay that he is a ball of rainbow colored fire. he revels in his flamboyance. he has no interest in lgbt groups or parades or wearing rainbow gear. TLDR

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