Jessa Duggar’s Courtship’s Moving So Fast That She Might Get A Full-Frontal Hug In Before Marriage

Jessa Duggar Courting Ben Seewald

If Nicholas Sparks and the Bible conceived a child together, it would be Jessa Duggar’s courtship with Ben Seewald. Or so I overheard Jim Bob Duggar say when he tried to pitch a spin-off show based on his children’s courtships to TLC. You see, 20-year-old Jessa Dugggar’s entered into her very first courtship. It’s kinda like dating, but without all that icky stuff like casual conversation and human contact and privacy. Okay, fine, I’m exaggerating. They’re allowed to touch twice per date. But only so Ben can see if Jessa’s body is strong enough to house 19 of his sperm for 9 months each.

“Dad allowed them to do a side hug when they were officially courting,” Michelle, 47, explains. “Jessa and Ben have said that was the only contact they would have, when they initially greet each other, when he comes to visit for their first hello, they have a quick 30 second or less side hug and a goodbye side hug and they agreed that would be the only contact they should have.”

One side hug hello and one side hug goodbye. And one long,sensuous glance across the dinner table while their parents discuss if Jessa’s dowry will be enough to make up for the fact that the Seewalds are bringing another woman into their family.
“How about we toss in 10 kids under the age of 10 along with that denim skirt factory I promised you,” Jim Bob half-joked to Mr. Seewald.

“But doesn’t that just include more girls?” Mr. Seewald teased back

“Unfortunately, yes” said Jim Bob, no longer joking, “I curse my wife’s uterus every day for saddling me with me so many of them.”

And lest you think that this relationship’s just a way for the Duggars to offload one of their women, it’s also a way for Jim Bob and Michelle to see if they still have what it takes to flirt like the teenage heathens they used to be. I mean, help Jessa flirt with Ben.

Jessa and Ben met in church, Jim Bob says, and then asked to correspond via text and on the phone. The Duggars agreed – and were kept in the conversation as the couple texted each other, mostly asking each other questions about theology and scripture.

Theology and scripture. Which will soon be followed with conversation about women being subservient to men and children raising children. Oh to young and in love and a Duggar woman!

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    • texassa

      The Duggars – the older Duggar kids in particular – seem very nice, and I wish the girls happiness in their relationships. What I must say I find troubling about this strict courting setup is that for any of these children – boys or girls – to be able to become an adult, move out of the family home, and have ownership over their own life, they must get married. Not to mention if they ever want to kiss, hug or hold hands let alone have sex. Marriage and family are great. Even abstinence before marriage can be great, if it is a voluntary and personal choice. These rules create an environment where the only choices these kids have are: a) stay at home forever and be under your parents’ complete authority, b) buck the rules, move out, and harm your relationship to your parents and siblings – the people you’ve spent nearly all of your life with since you do not go to school, go out with friends, go on dates, or work outside the home, or c) get married to the first person for whom feel sexual attraction. Marriage is (ideally) a lifelong commitment and shouldn’t be forced or rushed into because it comes along with freedom, independence, being an adult, and sex. It should be a well-thought-out choice between people who are already adults. This is just sad, and I feel bad that the kids in this environment are manipulated this way.

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    • catholicgal29

      First of all, Josh came hard on Catholis and as a Catholic I cannot support this family. Mrs.Mullat Duggar wants all people to be White,Quiverfull, Evangelical Protestant and support her lifestyle, and sorry not all Christians are white, Quiverfull or Evangelical
      Protestant. Mrs. Duggar also wants to use a donated egg in an attempt to get
      pregnant with baby 21, baby 20 died in a miscarriage. This women is sick and
      delusional so is her husband Mr.Duggar.

      Her daughters don’t have a choice- the courses they are taking is through some
      Quiverfull sect not through a real University of College- you will never see
      the take courses from places like Northwestern, the University of Phoenix, or
      ITT-Technical Institute. The daughters don’t date, Jill went from seeing a boy
      a couples times to marrying him. Can you imagine letting your daughter see a
      guy 4 or 5 times and then letting her marry him-Dillard boy and she goes
      straight from doing nothing with him to have full sexual intercourse.

      Can you also imagine a wedding with no alchohol or dancing allowed!!!!How
      ridicoulous are there rules!!!!!!!!!! Obviously they have never been to a
      Irish, Polish or Italian wedding.

      Jill also was watched so was Jessa with her boyfriend- I am sorry it ain’t dating if you go out with your boyfriend with siblings and mom and dad along the way for each
      date and your controlled what you do and cannot do before your married. Jessa
      was being told not to kiss before she was married in front of her boyfriend,
      which is dumb. Dating is the time to get to know yourselves both individually
      and with your family and friends . As well, kissing and hugging should take
      place before you marry even for those who want to abstain from sexual
      intercourse for marriage. I am 29 and I believe sex is for marriage, but this
      doesn’t mean I haven’t kissed or touched a guy in anyway because I have and it
      is normal and it is not disgusting or evil and no guy has ever taken advantage
      of me or made me feel unpure.

      As well, there is nothing wrong with wearing a bikini on the Beach or wearing
      pants or shorts. Her style reminds me of the FLDS SECT, asside from Polygamy ,
      Quiverful Protestants believe in the same non-sense that FLDS DO from women not
      working and not being allowed to get an education , that dinousours never existed, to popping babies every
      year, the older children raising younger children!!!!!!!!!!!!!AND THE BY THE
      WAY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE BIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Jesus never said though shall
      not wear pants or jeans for women and girls. Jesus also said to go out and
      preach the gospel, not hide yourselves behind your big house and live a life
      style that without the support of TLC and suppors we all know wouldn’t exist.
      SO THE BEST WAY TO GET RID OF THE DUGGARS is to stop buying their books and
      watching their show. Eventually, ratings will fall and TLC will have to cancel
      the show. So to protest against them lets not watch their stupid and ignorant

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    • Jose

      I wonder how many of these kids will rebel as teens, move out against their parents will, and get into some messed up lifestyles (i.e. drugs, porn, crime, etc…) just to get away from their family’s cult?

    • Alice Munro

      Oh please, with all do respect do you seriously have to question everything this family does that goes against what you decide to do with your personal life? I swear, if this family was not white and, I dunno, Hindu or Muslim or Aboriginal or something people would speak less crap against them because they would acknowledge that yes, in this world of 7 billion plus people, there are bound to be differences in parenting techniques and family patterns across cultural backgrounds.

      Like, what if I told you for millions of families in the East arranged marriage is still a thing that normal (aka status quo in THEIR society) partake in? Or millions of men and women around the world CHOOSE to wear religious headdresses such as hijabs and turbans. Just because we in our liberal-western mindset don’t follow that way of life, we tend to think of those measures as being oppressive, limiting, inhibiting personal rights and freedoms. That these people are forced to do these things and secretly they want to run away from their homes.

      Sure, there are unfortunate abusive cases and I wholeheartedly agree that forced submission needs to be stopped. But assuming everyone who does something unique according to a custom is wrong, or brainwashed into thinking they are free is plain ignorant. Has it ever occurred to you that oh I dunno, the Duggar girls WANT to live the way they are? And why does it concern you so much what they do? If you really hate them then stop paying so much attention to them . . .