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Lifetime Airs Documentary After Abducted: The Carlina White Story, Reveals What They Mean By ‘True Story’

Lifetime‘s latest Saturday night movie, Abducted: The Carlina White Story, tells a true, compelling story in a manner which avoids the network’s typical corniness. That’s due in part to the performances of stars Keke Palmer and Sherri Shepherd. While there are plenty of loose ends and clichéd moments, the movie doesn’t reek of Lifetime cheese.

My relatively positive perception of the movie was compromised when I watched the hour-long documentary Lifetime aired after the film. The special, titled Beyond the Headlines: The Carlina White Story, examined the real story on which the movie was based, as told by the actual people involved. The program shed light on what Lifetime means when they say a movie is “based on a true story.” To Lifetime, “true story” means “No names have been changed, but facts have.”

The basic facts of the case are all there in the film. 19-day-old Carlina White (Palmer) is kidnapped from the hospital when her young parents take her in for a fever. She is raised by her abductor, Ann Pettway (Aunjanue Ellis), a woman who has endured several miscarriages. Carlina believes that her name is Nejdra and that Ann is her mother. When Carlina becomes pregnant, she begins to discover lies about her background, namely that Ann is not her mother. Carlina takes it upon herself to investigate where she came from, and she eventually finds her birth parents, Joy White (Shepherd) and Carl Tyson (Roger R. Cross).

The movie does leave some confusion about what to think of Carlina White. The film sets her up as the heroine, a young woman who bravely attempts to discover her identity. Once Carlina meets her birth parents, however, her feelings start to change, and she cuts off contact with them. The movie doesn’t make it clear why she decides not to have a relationship with them, which is a frustrating ending for a viewer.

The documentary reveals a clearer explanation for why Carlina becomes hesitant to associate with her parents. It also provides a clearer sense of how much Lifetime likes to bend the truth in their movies, often unnecessarily. The facts Lifetime leaves out or manipulates would have provided a pathway for exploring Carlina’s complexity. Oh dear, look at me implying that Lifetime creates complex characters. How could I be so silly?

Some of the key details Lifetime leaves out include the fact that Ann gave birth to a son years after abducting Carlina. While Ann believed she was incapable of having a child when she committed the crime, the detail still complicates her character’s complexity. Oh, there I go with that complexity nonsense again. When will I learn?

The movie also alludes to Ann’s drug abuse, but never gives a definite answer. The documentary reveals that Ann was arrested various times on drug charges, and the father of her miscarried child was a drug dealer. Maybe Lifetime thought the movie was just too serious to begin with, so they left that part out. They don’t want to make people cry too much, you see.

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  • Sara

    It really bothers me that someone who was abducted by a criminal druggie would choose that mother over her biological mother. By getting into a fight over money, that makes Carlina sound like a piece of trash.

    • Caray

      I have been thinking about Carlina chosing her kidnapper over her parents as well. BUT, you got to put yourself in her shoes. Ann was the only parent she knew for 16 yrs!! And to suddenly find out your life is a lie doesnt change you emotional feelings and connection with that person. Yes, we all want a happy ending for Carlina, Joy & Carl but so much time as passed, when they finally reunited she was 23!

    • Renee

      So sad!! In a strange way Carlina is still lost. My prayers are with her and her family.

    • YM

      When you are kidnapped or taken away by someone with mental illness and drug addicted their number one goal is to manipulate, deceive and brainwash, this lady Ann had 23 years to do all that, so now this person has to work through all those years of programming and believing all lies to get to her biological parents. The key should be thrown away to the jail cell and Ann forgotten forever, but it also makes make wonder about her family… they raised her too…

    • Marie

      I agree with you Caray. I know the Pettway family personally and they are loving people, Carlina/Nettie was around a lot of love. Ann never an addict, I don’t know why that was in the movie and what was the point of showing that part. Carlina/Nettie loved these people and they loved her. The Pettway family was decieved just as much as the White family was…

    • Nurse

      Sometimes I wonder what’s stronger? Nurture or Nature?

  • Ms.Vee

    Just finished watching this movie. How sad. Carlina should think about how it would feel for her daughter to be taken from her. Then I think she would have a little more sympathy for her parents that lost her when she was just an infant. They are her family, not the woman who kidnapped her and selfishly kept her away from her family for 23 yrs.
    Cartlina the money means nothing, you found your family. Shouldn’t you give them the second chance you wanted them to give Ann?

  • Tonya

    The movie did mention in one line that the father was a drug dealer.

  • Netty’s Friend Forever

    Yes I have watched the movie and I see everyone’s opinion off the movie and documentary. But me, I know her PERSONALLY. I will not call her Carlina and I will not call her Nejdra. I will call her Netty. I’ve known her since we were kids. I will not identify myself. But I will gladly always have Nettys back no matter what. She is not trash, she is not the person that you think she is. She has been through a lot, and I know Ann is not her mom but Ann treated her like she birthed her, Ann did her dirt but she always made sure Netty was safe, she had a roof over her head, she had food, clothes and etc! Ann was mean I won’t lie she kept her in the house a lot but even tho she did that Netty was able to do things sometimes. Although Netty had to stay in the house sometimes Ann never denied her from playing with her friends or anything. If Netty had to stay in the house Ann let her have company. Although abductors take care of the child as if they are their own Ann could have done anything to Netty because she wasn’t hers. Netty did get in trouble by her abductor but as Netty got older she grew and she probably realized Ann did it to protect her. Netty has been with that woman since she was born she knows nothing else, she knows no other mom, Ann didn’t do anything to try to kill her or hurt her to where she had to go to the hospital or anything. So Netty respects that because Ann could have done anything to her, but she didn’t. I don’t blame Netty for not wanting Ann’s real son not to grow up without his mom. I believe that Netty wanted herself and her biological parents to just be thankful that Netty returned and was still alive. She probably knew and understood (still does) that her real family was hurt and that they probably wanted Ann in prison for life and that her or her family cannot replace or relive the years she was gone but i know Netty and I believe that she is just grateful that she is still here on earth. Netty is a great person she has a great head on her shoulders and always strives for the greatest things in life. That money doesn’t matter to Netty she just wanted to find her family and get to know them. The money wouldn’t have made her because it didn’t break her when they didn’t have it. She just thought finding her family may have been different but it takes time she had to get to know them.

    • doozied

      wow! what a grreat sory sweety. i agree with u totally. netty knows no1 but ann, her momma. the 1 who raised and nurtured @ cared for her. she’s having normal feelings in this situation, ann is all she knows. that’s natural for any abducted child. i do feel for her bio parents though, because they were robbed of their childs growing years. to have carried her for 9 months and ready to bring her home from the hosoital, and then find out she’s gone. that must have been HEART BREAKING. the bible says a liar will tarry in his sight, GOD said he hates a theif and a liar. even though ann probably had good intentions, she still lied and stoled sum1elses child. i will pray daily for this entire family. GOD BLESS U SWEETY. AND THANKS 4 SHARING UR STORY OF UR BEST FRIEND!

    • Devin luv

      This story is bullshit, Ann is a kiddnapper and the shit is a crime its wrong,Netty need to look at it as if some crazy, wreckless, ass person take her child. Fuck have been cloth,nurtured,and fed its wrong.Pesonally if it was me i will feel deprived seeing the structure that my real parents has and the shit i grew up with. I want have shit to do with Ann . She said she dont want Ann son not to grow up without his mom hell she was rob from being with her mom, im very dissapointed in how this story ending.

    • doozied

      wow! what a grreat story sweety. i agree with u totally. netty knows no1
      but ann, her momma. the 1 who raised and nurtured @ cared for her. she’s
      having normal feelings in this situation, ann is all she knows. that’s
      natural for any abducted child. i do feel for her bio parents though,
      because they were robbed of their childs growing years. to have carried
      her for 9 months and ready to bring her home from the hospital, and
      then find out she’s gone. that must have been HEART BREAKING. the bible
      says a liar will not tarry in his sight, GOD said he hates a theif and a
      liar. even though ann probably had good intentions, she still lied and
      stoled sum1elses child. i will pray daily for this entire family. GOD
      BLESS U SWEETY. AND THANKS 4 SHARING UR STORY OF UR BEST FRIEND!

    • http://www.facebook.com/PriveePiecez Stephanie Geezy-George

      your story about knowing Netty is nice however you didn’t mention her actual birth parents

    • Keli25

      What about CARLINA’s real parents? “Netty” may not have suffer, which is total bs, but they did. Their daughter was stolen from them, they didn’t get a chance to comfort or provide for her that was taken away from her. Ann is a crazy crackhead that belongs in prison for life!!

    • Eric

      I think it is important to look at every perspective. Considering the age in which she was reunited she was a grown adult. So I would imagine in her mind it is no different than if she was adopted. I had a friend who was adopted and finally found his birth father. His birth father and mother were amazing people but they were very demanding of him . We need to keep in mind the true victim is Netty. In the movie her aunt tells her to get up because she has a life to live. Just like my friend who has children adoptive, parents, etc…he is living his life now. He is a husband , father, and on his own. Birth parents must realize they cannot get back those lost years and they must accept whatever Nettie is able to give. And it make take considerable time for Netty to understand the complete dynamic of her life. Perhaps she has accepted the whole thing was a crappy mess for her…how can she trust? I think the money issues is more about “trust” . It is not about the money , it is about the symbolism of them not waiting until they were reunited…in away is communicates that at 21 years old..they gave up hope of ever reuniting. That is a natural feeling I think perhaps she feels she cannot trust anyone. I think she should set her goals so she is happy in her own family unit, then she can include the others as she chooses. everyone needs to meet Netty on her terms, I am sure in her heart and mind she is more of an adopted child because Ann did raise her as a parent. I wish her all the best !

    • Marie

      You said it well Eric, thank you

    • Brooklyn

      You said the best!.Your outlook is the best I’ve read yet. We all have our own opinions. I’m very swayed towards yours.I am very frustrated and have followed this in the news. since 1987. I have yet to see the movie but I want to see the after show “Beyond the Headlines” more so. I always felt that to no fault of her own Nettie being raised by a mentally ill woman in the Ghetto along with the Ghetto mentality helped form her outlook on money. It seemed as soon as the issue of money came up with her and her biological parent arose Nettie had a problem. (I can say Ghetto. I was raised in NYC Housing)Such a selfish outlook but look what she grew up with. I do pray for all concerned but Ann is a kidnapper. I pray for her but I have very little sympathy for her especially after she had her own son and did nothing to change the situation.

    • KP

      Thanks for sharing your story. Calina seems like a nice person.
      We have to all understand that a crime was commited. A child was abducted from the hospital. Ann has to go to jail because she lied, and stole a baby. This is not like stealing a piece of candy from the store, this is VERY serious. She took what was not hers. (She should have adopted a child)
      This is the part that you all who have grown up with Carlina do not understand, or you are all not getting, It doesnt matter how nice she was. She STOLE, which is a crime. If she didn’t go to jail then that would set a stand for other criminals to do this and nothing happen to them. It wasn’t Carl & Joy who sent her to jail, the state of NY sent her to jail. The state had to come out of pocket in which the tax payers of NYC paid. This situation would not have had to be paid for, if Ann didn’t kidnap a baby for the hospital. There are consequences for this behavior, and that is jail time. Carlina is a parent and you may be as well, so lets say you take your child to the hospital, and they call you to say that your child is missing? You would be devastated.
      All around it’s a sad situation that Ann has put her own son, Carlina, Joy, Carl, and the both family members though. I wish her and her parents all of luck, and hopefully time will heal and bring them all closer together.

    • Kesh

      I understand that you will speak for her as you know her personally. But right os right wrong is wrong. If she definitely wanted that connection with her birth parents money shoulndt have her stray away….yes ann didnt hurt her but she deprived her of what she was supposed to have. Here is her chance to know her family but because the money is gone…so is she….

    • http://twitter.com/NavyMom44 NavyMom44

      Are you kidding me? It should be okay with Carlina’s parents because she provided food, shelter and clothes so Ann should be given a pat on her head for doing the right thing. This is not just about Carlina this is more about parents that cried EVERYDAY for their child, worried, prayed, wished that their child would be returned then to hear well the kidnapper did feed, clothe and provide shelter. Seriously?

      You want to go with that line. It was not Carlina’s place to worry if Ann young son would be cared for but Ann’s. It is apparent by Ann’s action that the first per in her life is herself, she does not give a crap about anyone but her own damn self. Plain and simple.

      Maybe Carlina should imagine going to pick up her daughter and she just disappears into thin air. There are no clues about her child where abouts, so should she just let it go if her child is found and find out the kidnapper feed, clothe along with providing shelter Carlina can just let it go?

      Maybe you do not have children, but if you do could you just write off a child? If you could write off a child then you have no business being a mother or having children. Mothers give up EVERYTHING for their child, just because you said Ann was a good mother does not eradicate her actions.

      She is a kidnapper, plain and simple. She belongs where all the other kidnappers.

      In jail.

    • Brooklyn

      You sound a bit off. You don’t seem to have completed High School. Nice of you to stick up Nettie’s kidnapper but you seem to feel that it was alright for Ann to go in a hospital an take a baby of her choice just because she didn’t “harm” her. Well Ann caused endless harm to the White family. You miss the whole point. Nice of you to be a good friend Your opinion is your opinion. My opinion is just very different. Just because Ann didn’t “harm” Nettie (yet she did) and was strict she is a kidnapper and deserves life!

    • http://www.facebook.com/Kissmyclaws Kissmyclaws Jenkins

      You Sound Like a Piece of Shit….wtf do you mean “I will not call her Carlina and I will not call her Nejdra. I will call her Netty. Your ignoring the FACT that Ann is a Monster..REGARDLESS of how she treated Carlina and RAISED her she still ABDUCTED her! STOLE her from her FAMILY…SO I GUESS FOR ME TO GO KIDNAPP A BABY BUT OH NO NO AS LONG AS I RAISE THEM “RIGHT” THINGS ARE OKAY ! AND REALLY WE DONT KNOW HOW SHE WAS “RAISED” BECAUSE NOBODY WAS IN THAT HOUSE WITH CARLINA…SO

  • YM

    This is a very, very unfortunate story and I am so saddened for the parents who lost their child, their baby. Their hearts were ripped out when their daughter was a baby and then again as she is a young adult. As a social worker it is really, really sad to see the outcome of this story and this family’s life. A person with a clear mental health disorder steals, kidnaps their baby from the hospital, then clearly brainwashes this baby, child and young adult to believe she is her mother for her own selfish reasons is not ok. This lady is no better than a sex offender who kidnaps a child, the bottom line is she kidnapped this family’s child. It is so unfortunate that this young lady does not see that part of this but these type of people who take children are great manipulators and this lady had 23 years to rob this young lady of her entire life now she is left in confusion with two parents waiting to love her totally and completely. I hope and pray that this young lady is able to put herself in her parents shoes and think about her own daughter if someone took her and raised her, manipulated and brainwashed her daughter to believe her very own mother didn’t want her as what happened to her parents, she might have more clarity in her mind, heart, body and soul as to why this lady really, really deserved life in prison without parole. I say so what she has a son, she knew well that what she had did was wrong and that family looked high and low and wanted their baby, their child, their daughter back. This young lady also needs to think about her future and her daughter’s if they need a kidney, bone marrow or anything like this the lady who stole her can’t give her or her daughter those things it would be her parents and her siblings. She definitely needs prayer as does this entire family especially the parents who lost their child not one time but now two times. I’m praying for restoration and healing for this family and I know that God will prevail.

    • Ms_Mocha

      I so agree with you YM, I couldn’t fathom the thought of having to experience and endure the hurt and pain of losing a child that way. Yes Lord God will definitely prevail.

    • MsB

      Such a tragic event with mind boggling complexities; although, your perspective reveals some elements that should have been crucial when they prosecuted this woman. Pettway tried to justify her actions in the end that she needed the baby; it was not about Joy. Unfortunately, when she thought out the plan to steal this baby by dressing up as a nurse; that hardly sounds like someone who was emotionally distraught and should have been in psychological counseling to get past her losses. Instead, she had criminal intent to fraudulently pose as a nurse, strategically thought about how she would steal a baby from the hospital, picked her victim and went on to commit a horrific crime against the baby and her family. When she sat down and told Joy to go home because the baby was crying was to cry for her; not her crying about the baby. I may have it backwards, but I watched it twice and I still see an innocent and defenseless baby being victimized by a manipulative stuck on doll baby drama twisted individual…that innocent family had their “heartfelt wrapped in love blessing,” ripped out of their lives for 23 years. I cry teardrops for the Joy and Carl; my heart is bleeding for Carlina to grasp the magnitude of the manipulation that enslaved her to Ann Pettway and forgive, move forward and start a life with her bio-parents that God had intended for her. May her story be a courageous moment for those who are in similar situations and realizing that something doesn’t feel right with the family they are with. Thank you for an enlightening and insightful perspective.

  • dee

    Umm i wanna watch the after story of the real netty/ carlina white i dont care abt everything else what matters is what she has to say and how she feels. Its her life ultimately. Where or when can i watch it

  • Carrie

    Thank you for sharing your story. I am sure that Netty is having a difficult time trying to sort everything out in her life. But the people who have suffered the most are Carlina’s parents. I couldn’t imagine as a mom of 5 kids to have one of them stolen. All of the restless night’s, the fears, the wondering, the feeling of a piece of you ripped away for so many years. I agree, I wonder how she would feel if it was her own daughter. Yes, there is room for forgiveness, but it does not mean there should not be consequences for such selfish actions. I personally would want that woman in prison for the same amount of years I suffered wondering where my child was. That family was split apart because of it. I hope as Netty grows older and wiser she realizes that this woman needed to be punished because that is the only way her biological mom could get some kind of closure of justice being served for what she went through. Give her Mom and Dad a chance. They did nothing wrong yet lost so much. I pray she does not let too much time go by.

  • jean

    the money did matter. carlina apparently was an unwed teenage mom and will always struggle. did she even graduate from high school? she needs that money so she can pay her living expenses while she goes to college (the state will pay for her college). she needs to pay a babysitter. it will take her much, much longer because her greedy, stupid, child-like parents spent it all. they weren’t content with each receiving a couple of hundred thou–no, they had to steal carlina’s too. and joy is so stupid she didn’t put aside some sort of savings for each of the other daughters she brought into this world. i hope the bio parents did a hell of a lot of suffering because they have caused their daughter to have a life of poverty and struggle as well as confusion. they are apparently of very low intelligence. bet they went out and bought all kinds of nice baubles, bling and whatnot. and new cars. and now they are broke. few seem to understand that their stealing carlina’s money will cause carlina to have a much, much more difficult life. bet she doesn’t even finish college. it would be too hard also working and being a mother. while some can do this, carlina doesn’t have a supportive family so she could at least live at home free while she attends college and she has mental issues. i think she could have gotten through the mental issues if the bio parents hadn’t screwed her more. now where does she turn?. the state won’t give her living expenses, just the college fees. i hope the bio parents have more suffering. they deserve it for what they have done to their daughter. and to those who think i am being harsh in my judgment: would you steal your child’s money, the money that would give her a ticket out of the ghetto and give her a prosperous, educated life full of possibilities? i hate anybody who would do that, thus my feelings about these extremely stupid and selfish bioparents. they should go to hades. the two other daughters that joy has will also have nothing but struggle because of stupid, selfish joy. oh, i bet she bought the girls nice stylish wardrobes though, wardrobes that are now in the rag bag. children should not be allowed to manage money for others. the bio parents should not have been allowed to handle the money. there was no reason to believe they would be competent.

    • JustSaying_IMFO

      Carlina was a struggling unwed teenage mom in the “ghetto” long before she ever knew there had been a trust fund. And if she had never found out that she had been kidnapped, she would still be a struggling unwed teenage mom in the “ghetto”. It was her bad decision-making that put her in that position, not her parents.

      If she doesn’t want a relationship with her birth parents, that’s her choice. But to justify that decision based on money she never had to begin with is just trifling. There are many single mothers who have gone to college and beyond without the help of a trust fund. “Who have gotten out of the ghetto”. It takes a willingness to work hard, not a handout.

      And for you to wish continued suffering one people who have already suffered because of money, money that isn’t even yours, shows your lack of character. Watch out because Karma is a bi | tch.

    • jean

      justsaying – do you understand that the money would have been her ticket to getting through college full time and having a well paying profession? and now she’ll have a terrible struggle to do go to college and it will take much longer all because of the greed of her parents? if she could get through college in reasonable time and had that money, she’d have a decent standard of living, be able to bring up her son in a safe neighborhood, send him to decent schools, etc., etc.. of course it’s a bad decision that gets a fifteen-year-old pregnant. her biomom did the same thing. but the money would have given carlina a chance to break that cycle. and now she is poor and screwed up too, screwed up because of the betrayal of bioparents. there is no way around this: the parents each spent a couple of hundred thousand, then stole hers. they should be tried for their crime in the judicial system. they knew how important that money was to her future. how dare you call that “trifling.” this girl is messed up and she needed that extra help in the form of money along with the counseling the state will provide. if your bioparents had done that to you, i don’t think you would be sitting on your high horse like you are. you would be mad as h_ll. don’t kid yourself. carlina will probably always be ambivalent toward those greedy pig bioparents. you have no comprehension of what i am saying. it is quite obvious. i wonder if you have a guilty conscience about something terrible you’ve done to your offspring and so try to defend these atrocious bioparents.

      bottom line i hope you understand: do you think any decent parent would do that to their child? you really think that’s just a little thing that should be forgiven when they knew how much better a life their child could have with the money.

      how dare you judge carlina. how dare you say she wants a “handout.” you are not in her shoes and lack insight. yes, they richly deserve suffering, pigs who would do that. and there is something wrong with people who think that’s just a trifling thing, to be betrayed by your parents in such a way.

    • JustSaying_IMFO

      I completely understand. I came from a single parent household in the ghetto. I put myself through college and graduate school — on my own. I understand the struggle and I understand how much easier it would have been if I had had a trust fund. But I did not let that stand in my way. Far more important were people there to support me not money. Oh, I understand very well.

      You say she needed help. So what if there had been no money would she have needed less help? She had been missing for over 20 yrs, were the parents supposed to guess that she would need that help? How long were they supposed to sit on the money? They waited 21 years. You make it sound like they spent the day after they got it.

      How dare I judge Carlina? First off, I didn’t judge. I said if she chose money over parents that was trifling. If not, then it doesn’t apply to her. However, the “daring” I use is the very same same daring you used to judge her parents.

      So don’t you dare to scold me for judging anyone when not only have have you judged but also condemned.

    • KP

      You are missing the point of this story. The only betrayal was from the lady who kidnapped her from the hospital! The person who stole her from her family, and lied to her all of her life. How do we know if she even want to go to college? In the movie at Christmas when she was a little girl it seems as if her kidnapper encouraged her to do hair.

    • YM

      Here biological parents did not betray her. Her kidnapper betrayed her!!!! Her parents want her back in her real family’s life, you don’t know what help she would receive from them… The kidnapper offered nothing but a awful fake of a life… How dare you judge parents who had a baby stolen from them!!! What if you had your baby kidnapped and stolen from a mentally ill drug addicted and then returned to you… If someone kidnapped a child was a known criminal mentally ill and drug addicted what would she teach your child?? She would teach your child how to go after the money, not the reality of having her family and then the things she needs for herself and her daughter would fall into place. HOW DARE YOU JUDGE PARENTS WHO HAD THEIR INFANT CHILD KIDNAPPED BY A MENTALLY ILL DRUG ADDICT WOMAN WHO IS A KNOWN CRIMINAL!!!! Hope you never have anything you truly love stolen, taken away or kidnapped from you!!!!

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Mikki-Notman/584611482 Mikki Notman

      Any decent person would NOT KIDNAP a child. How dare you call the biological parents greedy when they basically lost a child for 23 years. You are a seriously messed up individual to put that much value in money. Netty got herself pregnant when she was a teenager, her biological parents didn’t do that to her. If Ann was a real mom she would have helped Netty get through college. But if Ann was a decent person she would have not take someone’s child.

    • Brooklyn

      You sound crazy! LOL regardless of what the parents did with the money, money should not be any part of the equation. You can’t miss what you never had. Nettie has a Ghetto mentality. her parents were supposed to sit on pins and needles for over 21 years when the government,state really could care less about helping them find a missing Black baby? Betrayed? The hospital and Ann betray the 3 of them. You are truly in need of help to say the Whites did anything wrong. If Ann hadn’t walked in a hospital and stolen a child none of this would have happened.

    • Bree

      Jean…you sound so damn stupid. I never read such a long ass message full of bullshit. Ann is that you?

    • YM

      So Well Said….

    • Kesh

      Well said.

    • Michele Gulley

      They won that money. That was their money. They sat some aside for her because they wanted to not because they had to. They let it sit there 21yrs. not knowing if it would ever be claimed. How long were they suppose to wait??

    • YM

      It’s really, really unfortunate that you have made this about the money when in reality it’s about a baby who was kidnapped from the hospital, manipulated, brainwashed to believe she was someone who is not…. Money is not the resolution for everything… these people didn’t know if their child was alive or dead, the kidnapper did not receive a just sentence for what she did she is no better than a sex offender who steals someone’s child, this mentally ill drug addicted woman stole a child from a family that’s the bottom line and that’s really the facts of the whole story, my heart goes out to the biological parents, young lady and their family. Obviously the kidnapper has a torried history, she’s been in and out of prison, has mental health issues, drug addicted plus probably a whole bunch more, she didn’t really raise the child, sounds like her mother and extended family raised this young lady, this young lady was robbed of her parents, siblings and family. The money was there to help raise her and for the families’ survival not to be awarded when the idiot who kidnapped her so graciously returned her because her selfish needs were met!!! Your thoughts are so out of line, but those without much and who have had nothing of course wouldn’t focus on the real issue and it is simply that of a couple who lost their child not one time but now two times….

    • http://twitter.com/NavyMom44 NavyMom44

      You are a certified idiot. A high class, grade A idiot.
      Her parents setup that trust fund for 21 years those funds just was there praying she could claim them. They waited months after the deadline still hoping they would find their daughter.

      Carlina asked about the funds due to the pettaways as they learned about it via the news.

      I hope you do not have children and you NEVER will.

    • kierah

      Jean you are really confused about morality and life. I hope I never run across the likes of you.
      Are you seriously thinking that the biological parents are selfish because they used money that THEY set aside for Carlina? The biological parents could have used that money themselves as young parents. They chose to set some aside for their daughter in the hope that she would claim it someday. They waited over 2 decades.
      Maybe Ann should have waited 2 decades before she decided to steal someone’s baby.
      I understand Carlina’s confusion about where she fits in life. One thing she can never be confused about is that she was abducted from her family. Everything about her life was tainted by that crime. The blame lies squarely on Ann Pettway’s crazy azz criminal minded shoulders.

    • MSB

      Carlina was victimized, manipulated and her mind was in control of the perpetrator that committed the offense against an innocent and defenseless baby. The bio-logical parents did not touch the fund until after her 21st bday; and legally, they did not do anything wrong, but try to survive. No amount of money can compensate for the anguish, heartache and torment that these innocent people suffered because some of a calculating, twisted and manipulative . God brought life for Carlina through Joy and Carl…it was their gift from God…their blessing; and instead of seeking pyschological help this woman cold blooded and calculating thought out a plan to take God’s blessing from another couple. The baby could not fight back, talk or complain, baby Carlina was being conditioned to believe this evil, manipulative, twisted, cold hearted woman was her mother. Once the complexities of this tragic event are unraveled with spirituality, healing, counseling and real love…Carlina will hopefully see a different perspective. She was an innocent baby who was defenseless when this cold hearted, calculating person committed a criminal act against her. God chose Joy and Carlina for her entrance into the world, not Ann Pettway…the world was ready to love Carlina…and the blessings for Joy, Carl, Carlina and their children would have been boundless!!! It was such a heart touching story…so sad that so many innocent people had to be tricked.

  • yolanda

    what a hard real life story, you truely understand about both sides the side of the daughter and the side of the parents. It is unfortunate that money even played a part, however the parents set up the fund and left it for 21 years they had no way of knowing if they would ever find their child…so many parents do not. Their daughter of course is going to feel something different then they would about the lady who took her, we love our mother’s no matter how good or bad they are…to her she still was the only mother she knew and can not help her feelings as for her brother he has a sister in her and a aunt who will be there to help to raise him. It is unthinkable the abductor would go free, and of course her parents would want to throw the book at her. I hope some how that they all get some type of family therapy because life is to short…start today and build relationships.

  • TT

    Ann is not a mother she should be locked away 1 year that she had that child glad I am not the parent they lost 2 x she came back now she is gone I think they should focus on the children they have.This way Ann and her family can be one just like they wont to be GETTO

  • Kesh

    Look at how she was raised, if course shed be so bitter about money….its unfortunate her biological family was stable and put together she came from being raised by an unstable ghetto home . Shes selfish and just….sad

  • Mary

    I didnt see the show after the movie so I’m not sure if this was answered but would’nt Carlina get money for the rights to the movie? And did it say how much it cost her bioparents over the years (time off work, flyers etc.) We know the cost of having their baby taken(heart break, marriage part of your heart and soul)!!!!!

  • Tava

    Will the documentary air again we only dvr the movie :( and have ?s as the ending leave u hanging

  • vizio

    I think it is inappropriate to blame the now adult victim-Netty/Carlina. Maybe money, or the lack of it, played a part in her decision to end things with her bio-fam, maybe it didn’t. The behavior of the bio parents and their daughter (who solved her own kidnapping) sounds typical in situations of long separation. She is allowed to feel however she feels. Unfortunately for all involved she has a connection with her kidnapper and the boy she believed to be her brother for two decades. It makes sense she would care about his well being. As the statute of limitations ran out on the case in state jurisdiction, she may have believed there would be no legal case and she could handle the reality of events on her own terms. Unfortunately she learned she was not the only victim (there were two others, and now a third in the son of Ann), but each victim has a right to their own reactions, however the public views them. And, there are of course a whole bunch of details we don’t know-many of the commenters on here ask the question “what if her daughter were taken/how could she care about the kidnapper.” Sometimes it is easy to get caught up in other people’s lives and pretend to feel and know what is appropriate for the situation. The facts is her daughter has not been kidnapped so she does not have to entertain the thought, and as an adult (or an individual) she does not have to want a relationship with her bio fam- She may regret having located them due to the legal fallout (one she did not want and credits as being the cause of the estrangement with the bio fam). It may take decades more to heal the pain on all sides and although ultimate blame goes to Ann, it does not mean the bio parents and Netty/Carlina aren’t going to find blame in each other, until they ultimately find closure.

  • MsB

    Joy White…what a joy to have a child returned after all the sleepness nights, anguish, emotional turmoil. Carlina should feel extremely blessed that she survived a horrific crime. It is so sad that the prepetrators had so much influence over her because they were all that she knew. I beleive that they had influence of her seeking monetary gains, as well. You can never trust a drug induced mind. Once Carlina comes to acceptance that she was a victim in a horrible crime…it was criminal!!!, maybe she will realize that God chose that particular woman and man to give her life. Ann Pettway, was twisted, insane and dispicable. Even though the legalities weighted out the motives…it was still a horrific crime. I think of all the children that never made it back or are somewhere being sex slaves by evil predators. In final analysis…Joy White and Carl are the chosen one that gave her life…their lives were disrupted and changed forever. Ann Pettway, in my opinion should get the maximun minimun in this situation. The legal system will give a non-violent, first time offender who just may have been in the wrong place at the wrong time a minimum of 25 years in many states; why should this woman get only 12 years; she should suffer for each year of Carlina’s life. She knew what she was doing, her intentions were calculating and though out. The movie was touching, but with the proper counseling; I think Carlina can see the situation from a different perspective. God bless her and Joy White, I applaud you, keep praying for her. The fact of the matter is; it was a horrific crime against an innocent and defenseless baby!!!

  • Avrill

    Did Carlina really have a child in real Life?

  • lilkunta

    Why is no one looking @ it from NETTY;s perspective. Ann is the only mother she has ever known so of course she didnt want her to go to jail. I also applauf Netty and think it is wonderful of her to have the perspective of “sending her to jail makes Trevon(her brother, Ann’s bio son) loose his mom the way you all lost me. But of course Ann had to be prosecuted and I think she was lucky to get just 11 yrs, after all netty was gone fro 23yrs. 2. HOW DID JOY/CARL BLOW THROUGH 435000 IN 2 YRS. The trust dissolved when Netty turned 21, adn Netty found out she was kidnapped when she was 23. Joy is still living in Hunts Point Ny projects, so WHERE IS THE $. Joy wants Netty to stop her live in Atl and move to NY, HOW? She cant do it because you BLEW THROUGH THE MONEY. Where is the effort on joy white’s part? She didnt make a website ot billboards or go on national news looking for Carlina. She didnt try hard enough. Netty is only getting free therapy for 1 year, that 425,00o sure could have helped out for family therapy if joy wanted a better relationship.

    • Guest

      You have to know that after 21 years these people thought she was dead or gone forever. If my child was missing for that long I think it would be natural for me to assume that she was gone forever. Netty should not be upset about something she had no hand in doing. Her parents sued the hospital, she was nowhere around. If anything she should understand why they would think she would never be found. She was raised in the hood by a hood-rat parent which causes her to have a hood-rat mentality. If I found out today my mother wasn’t my mother, getting money from the abduction would be the last thing on my mind.

  • flairdetroit

    Wow the dysfunction in the black community and the completely screwed sense of right and wrong on this board boggles the mind.

    • Diamond

      Wow, how ignorant you sound…how dysfunctional was it when that the situation of the little girl being held as a sex slave was discovered living in the backyard of the white folks that abducted her when she was a little girl. Statistically, you hear more of these disgusting stories in the white communities. The bottom line is this type of scenario can happen in any community. America was the biggest perpetrator in human trafficking when they stole black from their land to come and work to build this country up and they even built the White House. Now who is really dysfunctional…something to think about.

  • pinky

    I was “re-united” with my birth mother when I was 22 years old, and unless you’ve been through that emotional roller coaster there’s no way to understand how Nettie/Carlina is feeling. Okay I wasn’t abducted – I was adopted, but the experience for the child is still the same. Even now after 30 years, I still and always will consider my nurturing parents as my mom and dad instead of my natural mom and dad. I pray that Nettie will find peace in her heart and love the person she is now and will become. Time will help her sort through it all, but the media including Miss Superstar Harpo, needs to leave the poor child alone!!!

  • carrie

    thanks for sharing your story it was very sad