• Sat, Apr 7 2012

Video: Have You Ever Been The Other Woman?

Lena Chen, the host of Gurl.com’s Sexy Times weekly video series, answers the tough questions about sex and relationships. This week, she’s talking tough about whether or not it’s ever okay to be the other woman. Cheating: it’s serious business, and people can get hurt. You may really like the guy you’re seeing, but if he already has a girlfriend, you could find yourself in a sticky situation. Lena advises, “Treat others the way you want to be treated,” so don’t play a part in breaking another girl’s heart if you wouldn’t want someone else to do it to you!

See more of Lena’s Sexy Times videos here or subscribe to gurl’s youtube channel here to get access to all their great new content.

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  • geist

    Something I’ve just learned the hard way. I thought I could just have the guy who wanted to borderline cheat on his girlfriend with me as just a friend. I had a crush on him for a few weeks, but I quickly realized I wasn’t interested in dating him.

    I was actually turning down the guy’s advances and doing the right thing, but because he was publicly coming on to me, people thought I was the other women trying to steal his girlfriend. No amount of telling people I wasn’t seemed to get the message through, and I had to deal with a manipulative girlfriend who thought I was stealing her man and decided to be extremely underhanded about the situation (telling him that if he needed me as a friend, our relationship was okay, and then telling him I trying to break them up, etc). I’ve lost friends, my reputation has suffered, I’ve been extremely hurt. In the end, he dumped me as a friend when I told him to respect my boundaries.

    Do not have any sort of relationship with a guy with hits on you and has a girlfriend. You can’t have him as just a friend either. It will still end badly.